The Libra Personality, The Sign of the Scales
Sep 24rd to Oct 23nd
Strengths
Sophisticated, Sociable, Popular, Diplomatic, Adaptive, Aggressive, Rational, Seductive, Attractive, Sensual, Cooperative, Romantic, Analytical, Optimistic Cheerful, Sensitive, Gracious, Sociable, Tactful, Cooperative, and Diplomatic.
Areas to Evolve
Self-Doubting, Narcissistic, Vanity, Argumentative, Emotionally Detached, Protective, Controlling, Manipulative, Self-Indulgence, Holding a Grudge, Ambivalent, Multiple Relationships, Impatient, Sulks, and flirty.
Libra Blessings
You’re romantic and charming, sociable and enjoy a good time! You’re a slight perfectionist who can be a bit bossy at times. Some say you can be a bit of a narcissist. You love to be in a position of public service and it works well because you desire to be popular. You love to dress up for the occasion and get a bit set off if those around you are sloppy. You don’t like to be pressured or rushed, instead you like to plan ahead and keep everything on an even balance. You love attention, a good debate, and intelligent conversations. You don’t take criticism very well. Libra always looks to keep the balance or restore it when it’s lost.
The universe has blessed you with a soul that is charming and elegant. You speak well and you have an air of class around you. You are usually attractive, graceful, and all people generally and sincerely admire you. You represent balance, fairness, and cooperation, especially as those roles come into play with relationships.
You are a cerebral sign, but unlike the mentally all-over-the-place Aquarian and the psychically all-over-the-place Gemini, you are the air sign of balance and harmony. You have a natural curiosity with people and especially their relationships. You secretly evaluate and "score" what, how, and when people do things. You are not nosey, you are just being prepared for the day someone may ask your opinion. And being prepared for you means you have already calculated the path of destiny with the best outcome.
And when they do ask, they will most likely hear the only correct answer that exists in the universe. Even if that answer is not a popular or pleasant one, you will find a way to present it gracefully and with some options for them to consider. Inner peace and harmony is your ultimate goal, not only for your own relationships, but the rest of the world too.
Libra is a true romantic when it comes to personal relationships. You believe in everything that appears in the movies, including soul mates and magical happy endings. You are not needy and are willing to hold out for the perfect partner, after all perfection is something you aspire to. No other gives more and ask so little in return than a Libra when it comes to exchanges of romance and love.
Challenges for the Libra Soul
Under the universal laws of Yin-Yang balance, Libras have difficulty with anger management. More often than not, they suppress anger and allow it to fester for years. Libra anger is more a form of frustration than an emotional outburst a Cancer may have, and usually initiated because their point of view or measurement of balance is not getting through.
Anything deemed "unfair" is subject to Libra anger outbursts, especially when you find yourself under stress. As you read your daily horoscopes seek spiritual wisdom that allows you help others achieve balance and vent off your anger. If left unchecked, Libra anger often grows into relational manipulations. It will be easier for other signs to communicate with you if you can apologize better, or maybe even first.
Libra Anger
As a Libra, peace and harmony so important to you that you will even compromise your own personality to make peace with others. Even if you should say no, you say yes. Eventually it all piles up and your temper shows up. Once you’ve released a little pressure, you quickly put a stop to it because you’d rather see your world returned to harmony as quickly as possible. It’s a shock to everyone around them when a Libra explodes into a sudden rage. Libras tend to hold back their feelings until they can’t anymore and then explode with a rage that’s always a surprise to anyone around because they’re so used to Libra being the calm and rational one.
Libra anger appears when it seems like their well thought out points of view are not being heard. Unlike a Scorpio that "stings" when they are angry, Libra's have a hot button of volcanic anger that stays with them for life. Push that button, and you can hear in great detail related events of the past associated with the anger of the day. Learn to see the warning signs of Libra feeling like they are not being heard and you can avoid a confrontation. If you're a Libra, you have to realize the rest of the world doesn't have you ability of reasoning and efficient decision making. The point you wish to make will come across better if you try to calmly be patient and wait for the opportunity when the person you are communicating with is listening better.
What a Libra Wants in a Relationship
As a Libra, you hate being alone and need a partner that has their life and priorities balanced. You like to know your love interest can balance their job, work, family and you all at once. You appreciate harmony and organization so the perfect match for a Libra is a tidy person that’s organized. You love to fix problems, yours and other peoples and so your mate will likely be someone that is willing to share their problems with you and allows you to carry some of the weight on your shoulders. As a Libra, you don’t like tension and you’re not comfortable with a lot of arguing. Your mate will need to be a patient person as Librans also tend to spend a lot of time weighing all of their options before making any decisions.
Libra Relationship Compatibility
#1 Libra and Aquarius – Best Friends with Benefits
This relationship can be the ideal friendship. This couple will always be close to one another. Aquarius will have to learn to spend time away from large groups to provide Libra with the alone time they desire. In bed, Libra and Aquarius will have to work harder than others to demonstrate passion in the bedroom, but this is the ultimate compatibility relationship. Many astrologers believe, perhaps one of the best in all of the zodiac.
#2 Libra and Gemini – Best Friends
The Libra Gemini relationship will be based on a deep friendship. Libra will look to Gemini to be a constant companion but Gemini can only provide their undivided attention to one person for just so long. Bedtime that includes cuddling and listening to each other will be the most satisfying to this couple.
#3 Libra and Aries – Mars Loves Venus
The perfect long-term match because they complement each other so well. Both like a lot of variety and thrive on changes. They bring out the best in each other both in and out of the bedroom. In the bedroom they can create an electric energy together.
#4 Libra and Taurus – Physical vs. Possessions
Both Libra and Taurus appreciate the finer things in life and can sustain a relationship based around the things they both enjoy. Libra is more focused on physical appearance and Taurus is more interested in possessions. Libra likes to have attention all of the time and Taurus sometimes enjoys solitude. This can be a very exciting relationship sexually.
#5 Libra and Cancer – Creative Romantics
Cancer will thrive on Libra’s constant companionship and Libra will enjoy the pampering and flattery offered by Cancer. Both are self starters and will have a strong commitment to the relationship. Sexually both are deeply romantic and will have the ability to apply creativity in the bedroom.
#6 Libra and Leo – Look At Me!
Libra exudes a natural beauty and Leo tends to be a bit flashy by way of self-presentation. This duo will harmonize well as long as they respect each other needs and wants. At times, they may bicker back and forth just for fun. In bed they can be just as romantic and dramatic as they are out of bed.
#7 Libra and Virgo – Rational and (Un) Emotional
Libra and Virgo have a lot to offer each other in a relationship but they may not realize it. Both have the ability to detach from their emotions and can settle disputes rationally instead of emotionally. Sexually this may not be the most passionate relationship, but it could be if they’re willing to work on it. Libra has to learn to overcome their passive sexuality.
#8 Libra and Libra – Complicated Peacefulness
Two Libras can be complicated but with some honesty about their feelings, they can work out a peaceful relationship. Two Libras can be a contradiction because they usually look to avoid conflict but when they’re in a relationship together they will pick an argument just for the sake of arguing. The sex is based on romantic expectations and two Libras can come up with creative ways to show their love.
#9 Libra and Scorpio – Exciting Possessions
Libra wants excitement and romance, Scorpio wants to own and be owned by a partner. As long as both get what they need without feeling dominated, this partnership will work out very well. This pair will have a unique sexual chemistry.
#10 Libra and Sagittarius – Intellectually Curious
Both have a tremendous intellectual curiosity. Libra thinks through everything thoroughly and the Sag is always on the go, trying to learn more about everything. Conversations will be the glue that holds this relationship together. Libra is extremely romantic while Sagittarius doesn’t take intimately intense relationships too seriously. Sexually, these two might enjoy their conversations more than the physical contact. Any union between these two will be a meeting of the minds.
#11 Libra and Capricorn – Who Needs Romance?
This couple may not be the most romantic, but they can build a nice solid relationship. They have a lot in common and could last a long time together. Libra will be stunned by Capricorns show of romance and in turn will shower Capricorn with love and affection.
#12 Libra and Pisces – Romantic Fantasy
If both are mature, this couple has potential to work out well. Libra desires fantasy romance and Pisces can satisfy that need with ease. They may spat because Libra seems cold hearted and Pisces seems flighty, but when they make up, it’s legendary! Especially in the bedroom!